Dating abuse is a dangerous pattern of behavior that can affect people of all genders, backgrounds, races, and ages-even teens! These dangerous patterns of behaviors, or abuse, allow one partner to hold power and control over the other. This power and control may be maintained through tactics like emotional or physical abuse, controlling behaviors, threats, and other ways. This power and control wheel is a simple example of the different ways abusers maintain power and control:
For a more in depth look at the teen dating violence power and control wheel, scan the QR code using your phone:
1 IN 3 TEENS WILL EXPERIENCE DATING VIOLENCE BEFORE THEY ARE ADULTS.
Some signs of an abusive relationship might be:
- Isolating from friends or favorite activities because of your partner.
- Being scared of your partner.
- Your partner making comments that bring down your self-esteem.
- Not taking your concerns or feelings seriously.
- Your partner sabotaging you by spreading rumors or interfering with class work.
- Cheating or being deceitful in other way.
By knowing these signs and spreading awareness about teen dating violence, we hope to prevent abusive behaviors and relationships!
The Theme for 2024’s TDVAM is “Love like That”
Everyone deserves to be in a healthy relationship! By spreading this message to teens, we hope to prevent abusive behaviors and relationships. Some signs of healthy relationships are:
- Feeling safe and comfortable with your partner.
- Expressing your feelings to your partner without being judged.
- Being supported by your partner.
- Having trust in one another.
- Being honest and openly communicating with one another.
- And much more!
Can you think of other things that would make you feel safe and supported in a relationship? These are the things we should be looking for in a potential partner.
Teen Dating Violence Month’s Day of Action
On February 6th, 2024 wear ORANGE!
This is a simple way to raise awareness, start a meaningful conversation, and show your support to survivors of teen dating violence.
If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, there are resources available to help!
ACCORD, 24 Hour Domestic Violence Hotline, 1-800-593-5322.
Connecting Communities in Action (CCA), 24 Hour Rape Crisis Hotline, 888-945-3970.
Southern Tier Child Advocacy Center (CAC), 716-372-8532
For more information or to find trainings about Teen Dating Violence Prevention, visit https://crcncc.org/blog/teen-dating-violence-awareness-month-2024/ .
