Research shows that parents are still the number one influence in their children’s life.
Most youth state that their parents have never let them know how they feel about alcohol and drug abuse and many other activities that they would not approve their children participating in. The best way for parents to let their children know about their feelings with certain situations that may arise, is first communicate with their children.
As with all things with kids, one size does not fit all. This is especially true when talking with them about alcohol, your concerns and expeditions. What you say to a 9-year-old about alcohol is different from what you say to a 15-year-old.
A clear no-use message is the most effective way for parents to help keep their kids safe from the many dangers associated with underage alcohol use. REMEMBER, children also can’t learn all they need to know from a single discussion. Lots of little talks are more effective than one “big talk.”
Kids constantly texting? Join them in their chosen way of communicating by texting them as well. Texting with teens is a great way to connect with them and continue communicating about alcohol and its risks. So text-away! You’ll be able to stay in touch, let them know you’re thinking about them, and remind them to avoid underage drinking.
Examples:
2moro Tomorrow
2nite Tonight
BCUZ Because
BRB Be Right Back
BTW By the Way
CYA See Ya
ILY I Love You
JK Just Kidding
L8R Later
NP No Problem
OIC Oh I See
THX Thanks
TTYL Talk to You Later
Resources for Parents:
8 Ways to Connect with Kids, Teens, and Young Adults
Dear Parents: A Digital Well-Being Resource from Teens to Parents
How Alcohol Affects the Developing Brain
MADD Talking with your High Schooler about Alcohol
Parent’s Guide to Legal Drugs Kids are Using and Abusing
Signs and Red Flags of Alcohol or Drug Abuse
Talking to Kids About Alcohol and Other Drugs 5 Conversation Goals